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I am 26 now. I have wasted my 4 years of my life on government job preparation. I had put all my effort to get a job, but did not succeed. What should I do now?

Last Updated: 26.06.2025 23:39

I am 26 now. I have wasted my 4 years of my life on government job preparation. I had put all my effort to get a job, but did not succeed. What should I do now?

so I started deciding I do any kind of job. 3 months I worked as back office staff. (10k salary/month)

so I learned SEO from home and start to apply and I got it for the internship. a stipend of around 2000 a month. but within a month. I was fired because he said My work is not so impassive. but I do only what the senior tells me to do.

I got it 5–7 deal but I do not even accept it and move around to go back to my home and family. (The job and home same City)

Could the guys here tell me how their first experience with a trans woman was? Who was the lady to you? ( I mean girlfriend, one night stand, etc.) I just had my first experience recently and I would like to know about others?

I am not going to give you any advice on what you should do but rather I will share the story of my own journey in short.

my father's motivation gave me another chance to my career.

and I feel confident enough to attract better opportunities.

Zionists keep saying Israel “bought” the Palestinian’s land when the ownership was less than 5% prior to 1948. If Israel did indeed purchase majority of Palestinian land, why did the zionist state pass laws to confiscate Palestinian property?

After this, I started preparing UPSC exam it’s been 3 years I found that I did not fit into this. I am not Kitabi kida.

After completing my graduation (BCA in Surat), I started searching out jobs around development(PHP) but Couldn't Find it at my place in 2018.

during this journey I was frustrated, and after that, I decided to do some other job for mind freshness.

Why do doctors refuse HRT to menopausal women but hand them out to trans people?

because I hate that job. life me Fal-Sabji, chai-Cofe bech lena but asi Gatiya job mat karna.

I applied and worked for 1 month in field marketing or direct sales. (vahi Card wale) (Commission based 500/Sales)

My own journey is also the same at some point I invested 5–6 years figuring out what I should do.

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I am at the age of 27 now oct, 2024.

Currently,

After a few months.

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I am learning UI/UX Design its been 7–8 months and take a Google UX design Course on the Coursera platform. and started working on my portfolio projects.

after a few months, I started back to go into the IT field.

Note:- Sales me bhi Achhi reputational Job hey you Have to Find out and Work Only with Company payrolls. Like Market or sales Your own company's product or services.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

Because I believe that sometimes you don’t need advice you need hope. So here’s the story of hope…